Well welcome back everyone! What a crazy few weeks. But, with every new day, I’m becoming more and more energetic! Of course with this positive energy, I’m noticing more and more people enjoying the new love that’s in the air. So with this feeling so prevalent, let’s talk about attracting it into your life! It’s time for the Holy Trinity! Pour the three wise men and get your soul ready for a Drink with Jess.
I’ve been receiving tons of emails lately on attraction, specifically the Law of Attraction. Now for those of you who don’t know me, I have a spiritual side that contemplates these universal laws daily. This is the most powerful law in the universe, because you get what you put your energy and focus on, whether it’s wanted or unwanted. Better said, like attracts like.
Now that doesn’t mean that you will attract someone just like you. Hell, if I wanted someone just like me, I’d stay single! Anyway, what I am saying is that you are a magnet. We all are. Energy, thoughts, emotions and vibrations are constantly given off, received and felt. Why do you think I always say that women “feel” you? And in regards to dating and relationships, the Law of Attraction in so interesting to witness. However, this is a topic that I could go on and on about, so I am going to let you know a few important aspects of this cosmic working.
1. The Law of Attraction is neutral. It doesn’t know negative from positive, so the first thing that is necessary for you is to not judge any outcome.
2. In order to utilize the law of attraction, you must be clear in your desires and intentions. Also, you need to make sure that your intentions are coming from your true authentic spirit and not from a superficial frame of mind. For more on this, check out this week’s segment of “I Know What You Want” on Mixcloud.
3. What you put your attention on, what you put your focus on, grows. And because positive energy has a higher, vibrational frequency, you want to add as much positive energy and enthusiasm into what you are thinking, saying and doing. Remember: “enthusiasm” comes from the Greek meaning “in God.” How’s that for power, right? For more on building up your positive energy, check out this week’s Tipsy Tuesday.
4. It’s not about having, it’s about being.
Wow, there really is so much more that I could create a lecture on this. But for your benefit, and to keep it simple, here’s an example of how this would work.
I decide that I am ready to date. The reason behind it, my true desire for love, is pure. In fact, I focus attention on being loving towards myself and others to a point where I know I have all the love that I need.
When you do such things as take care of yourself, and are grateful for all the good you have, you will show that positive outlook, and that sense of love will be seen by everyone. This in turn, will attract more love to you because as the law states, like attracts like. With this energy out there, a romantic love (if that’s what you’re looking for) eventually will come into the picture. But remember, if you desire love in its purest form, it can come from many sources, not just romantic.
With this being said, I challenge you to look at your desires, in order see if they’re pure. Put that positive energy and attention on them, and witness what happens. Just remember not to judge the outcome, just like I’m not judging you for wanting another Drink with Jess.
Jess is a dating coach, best selling author, and radio personality in Philadelphia. She provides the LGBTQ community with no-nonsense, straight forward advice to understanding your mind in order to navigate the complex dating scene and go after and get the people you desire.